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A brief talk about love and marriage
Carl Rogers (1902-1987), this is a great man, psychologist, psychotherapist. It can be said that he is very lucky in marriage and love life. He met a woman she loved very much and got married when she was 22 years old. There is no coincidence in this regard, and another famous human psychologist Mallow has a similar situation. Rogers said that when Helen was excited and agreed to marry him: "She loves me! She loves me! "That is, I will never forget the peak of experience." The life of the spouse is not going well...
5 лет назад
The formation of fear-part three
According to sentiment theory, emotions such as fear are determined by a loosely coupled response group in three different response systems, namely subjective experience (e.g., perceived state), physiological activity (e.g., accelerated heart rate), and explicit behavior or behavior. Impulsiveness (e.g. avoidance) is essential for emotional phenomenology. In addition, according to the multidimensional concept of emotions, emotional states are organized around several basic dimensions. The most commonly...
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The formation of fear-Part two
Conceptually, according to Pavlov, the regulation of fear is actually a very adaptive phenomenon that helps detect warning signs of an upcoming threat. If the signal in the environment is followed by an unpleasant, unpleasant or potentially life-threatening signal, it is appropriate for the body to show fear of the signal, especially if this fear helps it avoid the imminent danger. Contrary to the adaptability of fear regulation, pathological fear and anxiety (by definition) are characterized by...
5 лет назад
The formation of fear-Part one
The determination of fear is one of the main examples of behavioral microbiology and a source of deep understanding of learning and memory, emotional psychology and microbiology. It is also widely considered to be a model of the pathogens of anxiety in a psychopathological model based on quality and stress. Based on the obvious contradiction between the adaptability of conditional fear and the dysfunction of pathological anxiety, we propose a criticism of human conditional fear as an experimental model of psychopathology...
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Life is disturbing, but living well
We have our own likes and dislikes for emotions, and we usually express various emotions. We are worried about bad negative emotions such as pain, sadness, and anger. We like good positive emotions such as happiness, peace, and happiness. This is normal. After all, human instinct is to avoid defects. But the pursuit of happiness itself is not a lucky thing. The mood is not wonderful or bad. Like the weather, the weather is fine, foggy, windy and sunny, and there are storms. Seasons vary in spring, summer, autumn, and winter, and each festival has its own unique beauty...
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Good marriage - Part two
Second Division: Indivisible qualities: They can accept the shortcomings of their partners, but they cannot accept the shortcomings of their partners, persistent resentment, oppression, self-restraint and withdrawal. If the first department determines whether people can establish a true relationship, the second department determines the extent of the relationship. The second point is to leave our own narcissistic part, to do the most appropriate position, use the real "I" to satisfy the real "I", this is the introductory marriage...
5 лет назад
Good marriage - Part one
When marriage is in trouble, many people want to know the answer: whether to improve the bad marriage in front of us or choose a good marriage. There is no right or wrong choice, but for many people, making choices is extremely difficult. The great psychologist Jung once said: The subconscious is manipulating your life, but you call it fate. Every bad marriage is the result of the joint influence of oneself and relationships; every good marriage comes with the growth of marriage. Many people who choose different people to marry will feel that this is completely different from the past...
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Self-knowledge and first impression - part two
5. Stay modest Sometimes you will disagree with people who communicate with them and will be different for the same event. For example, you think that the success of a company is because your team's operational capabilities are very strong, while the other insists that your understanding is incorrect because it is caused by certain internal staff resources. In this case, you usually strive to protect and maintain the image and honor of yourself and the team. But in reality, this is not what you...
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Self-knowledge and first impression - Part one
Many marketing books will tell you that the first impression of others is important, but how do you create a good first impression? However, there are more people to contact. From the perspective of the respondent, I still need to pay attention to some things. Whether it is cooperation, submitting an application or conducting business negotiations, self-knowledge is a key link. Many people may feel that their knowledge is not wrong. There are still many common problems when interviewing or chatting with different friends...
5 лет назад
Help others, do not compete with yourself
A good teacher or a responsible teacher will try to help each student so that everyone can grow and develop as much as possible. I must say that I really appreciate people like this, but to be honest, I can't do it. I think ordinary people can do their best to educate their children. This is already very good. A topic that emerged from this topic is a question raised by an intellectual. Some people hold leadership positions. He is somewhat confused about this issue. Is every young person worth learning? Should he try to make everyone better? Then I think this can't be too idealistic...
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Fear
In fact, the story of human learning and progress is the story of overcoming fear. Each of us has been learning to ride a bicycle, learn a driver's license, learn to swim, learn to dive, not to mention extreme sports. I am not afraid of your jokes. What is the thing that I jumped in the high school physical education class, some fell in the bar, I was shaking? This is especially true for human history, the first people who eat crabs, the global adventures of the ocean age, spacewalks, and the landing of people on the moon...
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It's a psychology
1. Psychology is a branch of science. The keywords here are the science that requires strict logic and evidence. Most psychology understood by the media and the public is a misunderstanding of psychology, even pseudoscience. All unreasonable descriptions are not in the scientific category. 2. Psychology is not responsible for the interpretation and description of hot topics and causes of interest to all. In fact, many psychologists only explain some basic causal relationships of behavior. At first...
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